September 24, 2023 “Be open to listening and comforting those who are dealing with grief. Even if we aren’t sure of the right words to say, our presence can make a big difference.” — U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishop Jesus wanted us to support each other in our...
September 23, 2023 “Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.” — Margaret Mead Do we really know what it’s like? Those who are grieving are often upset to be told, “I know what it’s like,” however well-intentioned the words may be from a...
September 22, 2023 Grief is weird “Before I begin, this post is not seeking sympathy. It is merely trying to shed a little light on the total weirdness and unpredictability of grief. Those who have experienced deep loss already know. But for those who have not: I...
September 21, 2023 “Hearty laughter is a good way to jog internally without having to go outdoors.” — Norman Cousins Did you hear the one about the guy with the broken hearing aid? Neither did he. What about the evil tuna? It was rotten to the albacore. Or the smoking...
September 20, 2023 The After Loss Credo I need to talk about my loss.I may often need to tell you what happened –or to ask you why it happened.Each time I discuss my loss, I am helping myselfface the reality of the death of my loved one.I need to know that you care...
September 19, 2023 “Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can’t build on it; it’s only good for wallowing in.” ― Katherine Mansfield Living a life filled with regrets is like not living a...
