May 10, 2026
“Love as powerful as your mother’s for you leaves its own mark. To have been loved so deeply, even though the person who loved us is gone, will give us some protection forever.”
— J.K. Rowling
Reflecting on her mother’s loss years earlier, a doctor who wrote a letter to the editor of the Hearst newspapers and spoke about everything she would tell her mother if she were given the chance:
“Rather than reliving the past with my mom, I would tell her that now, nearly 20 years after her death, I finally understand her so much better. Things she did and said 40 or 50 years ago that I puzzled over, disagreed with and argued about, I now understand.
“Now that I am older and closer to her elder years, I see the meaning behind her words of protection from daily news traumas, why she wanted to have peace and not political protests. I finally understand her wish for quiet, gentle care and love, not exuberant travel and experiences.
“Now I wish I could thank her for her wisdom and thoughtfulness, most of which I did not understand or value. With a big hug, I would tell her… “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom. I love you…”
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